We are with my wife on a transatlantic cruise, spending many days at sea with no shore in sight. There are hundreds of activities to entertain us, including movies, shows, the gym, games, sports, music, reading, and many others. But of all, the best entertainment is interacting. Every breakfast, lunch, snack, or dinner, we end up talking to people who have stories to tell.
The last conversation was with a 90-year-old woman and her 91-year-old husband. After 29 moves around different military bases, they live in Ocala, Florida. He, Jim, was a former B-52 bomber base commander. He traveled through several wars, the kind you suffer through in documentaries and enjoy in movies.
Fascinated by his stories, wars, and lives on 29 military bases with several children, grandchildren, and great-grandchildren, I asked him if he had them written down. Surprised, He looked at me as if he didn't realize how the time slipped away. "We travel a lot," was his excuse. "You could still write them down; maybe no one will do it for you," I replied. He looked at me again with regretful eyes as if grateful to be told that his life had been worthwhile.
I didn't motivate Jim by chance. A few days ago, I read a note about the poet Andrea Cote-Botero, who won the XXIV Casa de America Prize for American Poetry. She won with "Querida Beth," her aunt's migratory nightmare in the United States, to return to Colombia to die. When asked why she had written about her aunt, the poet replied: "(She) knew that her life would come to nothing, and she wanted to be remembered. I was touched that she had such confidence in the power of writing."
I hope I have conveyed to Jim what Cote-Botero refers to as "the power of writing," not allowing time to erase our traces.